HE’S HERE!!!! Â It had been a long “road da’hoe” and he was a couple weeks early, but he’s healthy as a little horse. So here’s the story:
We had been to the hospital about 4 or 5 times before thursday, just for random things such as the 3 day stay for the dehydration, then there was a night that Nisha was having some freak chest pains that subsided a little after we got to the horsepiddle, and then a couple “scares” where thy just checked Anisha, made us walk around, then sent us home… Then Thursday (the 18th) came along…Â Nisha started feeling some contractions that day, and was feeling like something was going to happen that night. The contractions were steady, and 3-5 mins apart and the Dr. told us to go in to the hospital when that was happening, so we did.
Upon arrival they hooked anisha up to all the monitoring machines, and watched her for an hour or so, and during that time that they had us walk for like 45 mins because her cervix hadn’t changed. Now, the Orem Community Hospital isn’t the biggest hospital in the world so it get’s really old really quick walking in circles around the nursery and walking to the end of halls and turning around.After we were done walking they checked her and she had only changed to about a 4.5cm from the 4cm that she was at when we first got there, so they gave her some morphine to help ease the pains of her contractions and they sent us home, because she wasn’t far enough along for the Dr. to break her water. Yet another disappointing time where we got our hopes all up and came home with no baby. That gets pretty discouraging after the second or third time of having to do that, But we went home, both Anisha and I were able to rest that night which was well needed for us.
The next morning (Friday), Anisha was sure that it was “the day” because of the way she was feeling, it was mostly because the contractions were still steady, and she was just ‘feeling it.’ So she took me to school and I went to class and then went and took a test, meanwhile Anisha took Cailyn to my mom’s house, and went to the Rec. center and walked around on the track. She walked like 4 miles (slowly) on the track, and did 2 miles on the stair glider machine, then came and picked me up from school. I went out to work for a while on some apartments.
When I came home, Anisha said that she wanted to go to the hospital at 6 to (hopefully) have the baby, because her contractions were really picking up and starting to hurt real bad, she said that she was feeling different than she had felt before about it all. So 6:00 rolled around and we took off to the hospital and you could just feel the excitement in the air.  So many things were going through out heads, and this time we felt it was really it!! The nurses got her all hooked up to the monitors and they checked her, and she was still at a 4.5cm AAAAHHHHH!!! Noting had changed!!!! So our hopes and dreams seemed to have been bashed in with a baseball bat. Â
Nisha’s contractions were really starting to hurt her, and the nurse said that it was probably all of the walking that she did that day that was making her have these contractions, and that there was a possibility that she wasn’t even close to being in active labor. They asked if we wanted to stay there for the hour so they could monitor her to see if things would change, we agreed and so we stayed a while, and then Nisha just wanted to go home. The nurse came and checked her and still noting had changed except that the contractions had gotten more painful, so they gave her another dose of morphine to help numb the contractions, And once again we headed home. This time feeling more distraught and discouraged than ever before.Â
We decided to just leave Cailyn at her Grandma & Grandpa’s house for the night. We got in bed and tried to get some sleep but it didn’t seem that the morphine was even working this time. Anisha’s contractions started going about every 2 mins and on a pain scale of 1 to 10 she said they were about 12’s to 15’s. We waited about an hour just to see if they would let up, but they just seemed to get more and more intense.
So at about 10:30 I called the hospital back and talked to the nurse that had just sent us home, and told her that things were just getting worse and that Anisha couldn’t hardly bear the contractions and she said to come back in. Anisha told me that I would have to drive fast, and I told her that I could handle that, so at about 11:00 we hauled down State Street, and we pulled up at the hospital and they took Anisha in on a wheel chair cause she was kind of immobilized and having really intense contractions.The nurses got her all hooked up to the monitors (deja-vú) and checked her and she was at a 6!!! HOORAY!!!!!!!
This time they called Dr. Young for him to come to the hospital, because things were happening! They started to prep Nisha for labor, they put us in this awesome (huge) room, and the anesthesiologist came in and started Nisha’s Epidural. After he was done starting that, they came and checked her again and she had progressed to an 8!! Then within 45 mins she was at a 10 and ready to deliver, and her labor lasted about 45 more minutes and we had our little Gavin! Anisha did so awesome! Right after Gavin was delivered I looked at Nisha and she didn’t even look like she had just delivered a baby, she didn’t look the least bit flustered, just a little tired (she was beautiful)!
It was amazing how fast things went after we arrived at the hospital, I guess when you’re ready, you’re ready! No sooner, No Later! It seemed like the contractions she was having at home before we came were worse than the actual delivery at the hospital!
It’s hard to believe that we have another child and that he’s already here, it seems so unreal. It hasn’t all completely sunk in yet, we think it will probably take a while for it to become a reality, if you know what i’m saying.
Like I said in the beginning, it’s had been a long “road da’hoe” but it was all worth it! He is Healthy! Born 20-Oct-2007 at 3:24 a.m., 6 lbs. 14 oz. and 20 inches! the first 15 hours of life for him have been mostly sleeping, he’s opened his eyes and he just looks around with a real serious look on his face, but he’s as cute as a bug in a rug and we’re dang excited to have him in our family! Stay tuned…